I always hang a bell according to the legend from It's a Wonderful Life ~ "Every time a bell rings, an angel gets his wings." And I set out my Nativity set on the first day of advent.
My grandfather built the stable in the 1920s. And I display these ornaments that were my Grandmother Wright's.
They are rather worst for wear, but I love them for they are the only tangible things I own of hers. I never knew her, as she died in childbirth long before I was born. Some people may say it is too soon to start decorating for Christmas, but all my guests come at the beginning of December, so I like to have things ready for them to enjoy. So this week I'm baking and making and wrapping and cleaning, as I have guest expected next weekend. I love all the busyness of the holidays. I know some don't, but for me I'm happy to have too much to do, rather than be sitting home all alone. And I've been there so I know what I speak of. There were a few years that due to work and weather I had no one to share Christmas with, and it was the worst sort of loneliness. So if you find yourself in this situation this year, please know I'm here for you. Just drop a note in the comment and I'll respond ASAP. Scout's honor!
MAKING CHRISTMAS WHEN THE POCKETBOOK SAYS "NO"
I collect children's Christmas books and one of my favorites is Mother Makes Christmas by Cornelia Meigs. It's a sweet little story set in Vermont during the turn of the last century about a mother "making" Christmas for her family when was short on funds. Now that is a plot that I can relate to! Ha! I wrote about one such Christmas here if you are interested.
There's so much that can be done on a shoestring to make things joyful. Even if all you have to eat is soup or franks and beans you can still make them festive by bringing in some greens cut from the yard and serving the soup by candlelight. Candles can be purchased so cheaply from dollar and thrift stores. Play some Christmas music softly in the background either from YouTube or the radio, both are free. Gather around and read the Gospel of St. Luke each evening of Advent, there's nothing like it to draw a family together. Attend church services and go to their caroling events. Do some window shopping. The stores are decorated so prettily this time of year.
There's plenty of inexpensive toys and gifts for children. Children don't know the value of things!
Here's a list of things that children enjoy that don't cost an arm and a leg:
Art supplies, such as watercolors, crayons, clay, construction paper, glue sticks, etc.
Craft kits. I still remember the little knitting bobbin I received when I was 5. It instilled in me a life-long love of knitting.
A plain old ball. Or a yo-yo, hacky sack, hula hoop, etc.
Books.
As a little girl, I loved barrettes and ribbons and headbands. All which can be purchased at dollar stores.
Homemade doll clothes.
Board games.
My sons all loved inexpensive compasses and cheap little pocket knives when they were around ten.
Remember those bags of plastic army men? Well know they have farm animals and dinosaurs.
Plain old-fashioned blocks. (Not the expensive Legos)
I know little boys love the Matchbox type cars. Anything that fits in their pockets.
Those little packages of card games like Old Maid and Go Fish and the time to play them.
You get the idea. Older children are more difficult. Hopefully, you've raised them properly and they aren't spoiled. Ha! My parents always gave me a dollar amount I could spend for Christmas. Back in the late 60s it was $30. Which was pretty generous back then. I remember one year I got a pair of skates, one of those cheap camera sets, and a transistor radio. I was over-the-moon happy. Unfortunately the skates were the most uncomfortable ones I ever owned and I went back to wearing my sister's old hand-me-downs. But they were so pretty I held onto them for many years.
QUOTE OF THE WEEK
I am sure that many of you who love Tasha Tudor are familiar with this quote by Fra Giovanni:
No heaven can come to us unless our hearts find rest in today. Take heaven! No peace lies in the future which is not hidden in this present little instance. Take peace! The gloom of the world is but a shadow. Behind it, yet within our reach, is joy. Take joy!
TAKING JOY
I always say that if you take joy in the little things in life, you will always be at peace. In light of the most joyous of seasons, I made a list of some of my joyful things for this week:
1. I can renew my driver's license by mail!
2. My husband just came into the house gave me a kiss and said "I love our life"
3. Polka dancing with my grandchildren.
4. Baking Christmas cookies with my sandbakkel tins. They are so stinkin' cute!
5. Talking on the phone for two hours with my kindred spirit.
Can you name five joyful things for the week?
BAKING
Another joyful thing for this week, was a baking experiment that turned out. My son, Scott, loves gingerbread Twix bars, but I don't think they make them anymore, at least I haven't had any luck in finding them. So I decided to make my own, combining a couple different recipes. They turned out great!
Gingerbread Twix Bars
Gingerbread base:
1 pkg. gingerbread cookie mix (I used Betty Crocker's)
1/2 C. butter
1 tbsp. water
1 egg
Combine and spread in a greased 13 X 9 inch pan. Bake at 350 degrees for 15 minutes. Cool.
Toffee topping:
3/4 C. butter
6 tbsp. sugar
3 tbsp. corn or cane syrup
1 can of sweetened condensed milk
1/2 tsp. vanilla
Combine butter, sugar, syrup and sweetened condensed milk in a heavy saucepan. Bring to a boil, stirring constantly. Boil for 5 minutes or until mixture starts to turn a golden brown color. Remove from heat and stir in vanilla. Quickly pour over the gingerbread, spreading evenly. Cool for 1 hour or until toffee begins to harden.
Chocolate glaze:
Melt 1 package of milk chocolate chips in a double boiler and spread over the toffee. Allow chocolate to harden and cut into rectangular "twixes".
THRIFTY DECORATING
I wanted some wreaths for my doors, but I don't like the looks of evergreen ones (the remind me of cemeteries) and the ones offered in stores are too overdone for my taste and too expensive to boot, so these are my solutions:
A simple garland that I wrapped loosely into a circle and tied with ribbon from the dollar store and hung a Christmas ornament from. And:
An old pair of mittens with some greenery tucked into them. You could use fresh if you have it, I just used a floral pick that I bought at the thrift store for 59 cents. It lasts the entire season that way.
BY THE WAY
By the way, Binks and Hissy were quite "put out" that I didn't write about them last week, so here's a picture of
Binks the instigator, and
lady-like little Hissy. Wasn't I fortunate to befriend three of the cutest little cats ever?
THRIFTY THINGS WE DID THIS WEEK
My daughter-in-law, Erin, sent us home with enough turkey, stuffing and potatoes to last several days.
She also gave us 2 dozen eggs. They raise chickens.
On the way home we stopped and stretched our legs at Shopko which was having their early Black Friday sale. I picked up a video game that Jamie wanted for Christmas on sale, plus some other deals.
I took advantage of Pinetree Garden Seeds Black Friday sale to purchase this coming years garden seeds. The sale is still going on until Midnight of the 27th if you'd like to buy some seeds. You get 15% off your order and the sale code is BLACK16.
I also used the code SNOW to get free shipping with no minimum order at Victorian Trading Co.
Which was good as the item I wanted was only a few dollars and cost as much to ship.
I framed a Christmas sampler with a thrifted frame.
Knitted yet another pair of socks. I discovered that Panton's Classic Wool in Natural Marl makes the nicest ragg wool socks, when combined with a tweed green stripe, they look exactly like those expensive wool socks in the Woolrich catalog.
I needed to be in Pigeon for a medical procedure, so while there I stopped in at Ben Franklins which was having a sale and got 20% off a Christmas gift for the grands.
I've been baking a lot this week, so when I finish I always leave the oven door ajar to help heat the house. This combined with our wood heat has really helped to keep us cozy. I don't think the furnace has kicked too often this week.
Reused some tissue paper that came in a gift bag to wrap some Christmas presents.
Decorated the house for Christmas with things I already owned and pinecones, twigs, evergreen cuttings and pieces of birchbark that blew off the neighbor's tree.
Our phone was acting up, so Magic Jack did some diagnostics over the computer and solved the problem ( for free). All it needed was a new USB plug which cost less than $2. I'm very happy with Magic Jack's service.
Well, that's about it for this week at the old Zempel boarding house. I'm not going to be gone for long though! I decided it would be fun to have a Christmas countdown starting December 1st. A post a day until Christmas. Don't worry! They won't be as long-winded as my usual posts. Ha! Just short little posts to share a thought, idea, recipe, quote or link. Maybe a few glimpses of the old home place decorated for the season. Let me know what you think about the idea. Happy trails until we meet again!
Hugs
Jane
Joyous Advent, Jane!
ReplyDeleteOne of your joyous things is on MY list, too! :)
Other joyous things?
Knitting a lovely scarf for my Mom that will one of a kind for her Christmas! I can't wait to see her face when she opens it!
Finding a really good sale on organic chicken wings which will make three meals for us for under $3 total!!
Sunshine!
I am enchanted with the "Twix" bar recipe! I see them in my future! Yum!
Sounds like a perfectly lovely week! I agree with Tasha: Take Joy!
as ever.. m
Sunshine! What's that, Matty? Ha! We're like moles here, going around in the dark all the time. I hope you are enjoying this lovely Advent day. And are staying warm!
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Jane
How perfect, I just sat down with a cup of tea and you gave me something fun to read.
ReplyDeleteYour grandmother's oranaments are beautiful. I imagine they are that delicate glass I remember vintage oranaments being. Hissy's fur looks from your picture as if it would be the softest. As for decorating for Christmas, we usually start the Friday after Thanksgiving. Not because Thanksgiving is over, but to have some quiet time to enjoy them before the family starts rolling in, or we are off visiting others. Growing up I never realized how often my parents were worried about money and the lack of. In fact yesterday while playing a few rounds of cards with them and my husband, I told my husband how playing cards growing up with my parents and siblings was so much fun. My dad chuckled and my mom chimed in one of the reasons we played cards so much was because they couldn't afford to do anything else for entertainment. Here I thought they took away the tv because we watched to much and liked to play cards.
Have a wonderful week!
Hugs, Jen
Hi Jen! Yes, Hissy is very soft. They all are. Must be all those kippers!
DeleteIt sounds like you have wonderful parents Jen. I think one of the most important things a parent can do is make their children feel safe and secure in an uncertain world. Besides, I'm sure cards is a much better way to spend time with family than sitting in front of the TV.
Hope you have a joy-filled week!
Hugs
Jane
What a perfect post! And so nice of you to offer advice on how to find joy in Christmas even if alone. the nativity set is beautiful...and your window and door decorations! Your recipe looks so good. In the 60's I got to spend $10 for Christmas and I remember by 1970 it went up to $15! And it was hard even more because in 6th grade the teacher had us each stand up and say what we got for Christmas! What a dumb teacher! I remember that year asking for a Timex watch, which was within the budget, just so I could say I got a more "grown-up" gift when really I still wanted a Barbie doll! ha...I always wanted skates but eventually I think someone lent me a pair. I think you travel as I do...looking out the window (as a passenger of course) and looking at homes...some look so cozy along the highway! Hugs and Happy Advent, Andrea
ReplyDeleteI was lucky Andrea. My older sister worked at a store that sold Barbies and she liked them but was too embarrassed to buy them for herself (she was 16), so she bought them for me and we dressed them together. She still collects them to this day. She also loved paper dolls and always cut them out for me. Do children now days even know about paper dolls?
DeleteI picked out the skates, based on the pretty snowflake lining. Not a good criteria for ice skates!
I love looking at houses at nighttime. They look so cozy with their lights on. And this time of year when the Christmas trees are up is really special. Guess I never got over the excitement of Christmas. Happy Advent!
Hugs
Jane
Oh what a lovely idea to share every day! I am so into Christmas for some reason this year. Some years not so much. So hoping youngest makes it home for Christmas from boot camp... Blessing to you this Sunday
ReplyDeleteThat would be wonderful if your son could be home for Christmas. I'll hope for you too, Angela!
DeleteI'm excited about Christmas this year too, for some reason. Maybe we just need a reason to feel goodwill. Thank you for the blessing! Hope you have a wonderful evening and week!
Hugs
Jane
I look forward to your daily posts in December.
ReplyDeleteHappy Holidays to you and yours dear Jane ~ FlowerLady
Thank you dear, Rainey. I hope that you are doing better today.
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Jane
I was delighted too to find out I could renew my drivers license by mail this year. It was so simple. Your door decorations are lovely. How wonderful you have handed down holiday items from your grandparents. I don't believe either set of my immigrant grandparents did much in the way of decorating. I'm very much looking forward to your December posts!
ReplyDeleteI have a great fear of any test, Laurie, so this really makes me happy. Ever since they gave me the wrong test, one for truck driver's licensing, which I just passed by the skin of my teeth, I've been nervous about the whole thing. I had no idea what gear you shifted into when your truck was running away on a steep hill. Ha! I came home and asked my husband about it and he looked at me funny. They must have given me the wrong test. All that was on his were questions about signs and traffic rules. Maybe someone thought it would be a good joke at the office. Well I got 60% but I don't think anyone who has ever seen me park, would hire me as a truck driver!
DeleteHave a fantastic week!
HUgs
Jane
Oh, what a treat for us! A post a day! I look forward to seeing how you prepare for the holidays in your charming little cottage.
ReplyDeleteWell, I hope I can come up with enough to write, Isabella! Don't think that will be a problem do you? Wink! Wink!
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Jane
Yay a daily post, something to look forward to each day.
ReplyDeleteLove your decorations, and how special to have something from your grandparents to treasure. I see gingerbread twix in my future baking, yum. What cute kitties; so glad they found you. Thanks for the quote and reminder to take joy.
Well I hope that I can find enough to keep you amused, Kathy! I'm glad the kittens found me too! Have a joyful week!
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Jane
Hello Jane, I am guessing that when winter comes it will be very cold as I am not sure where you do live. One of my blog friends was knitting mittens with "thrumming". Of course I had to Google that word, and wonder if you ever knit hats or mittens or socks this way? Using fleece fibres, with ordinary wool too, and they look so extra warm. Christmas, ours will be very quiet,, a few pine cones with some tiny tree twigs, on a wooden tray, a few baubles and a lovely red tablecloth.I am hoping our daughters will be home for Hugh's 80th birthday in early January.It is too far ( and very expensive to fly) for one to travel twice in a very short time, and the older one, grandson will be working on Christmas Eve till at least 10 p.m. And totally unfair to think they should drive 4 plus hours the next day, for only the one day.Eggs, turkey, stuffing and spuds, what a treat.
ReplyDeleteHello Jean! I live almost exactly at the midway point between the equator and the North Pole, or in other words, the complete opposite of where you live! It's cold here, but not unbearable, at least not to us. The coldest I've ever experienced was in the negatives 30s Fahrenheit.
DeleteYes! I've knitted some mittens with thrumming for the boys when they were little. My oldest has hinted that he'd like a pair. He works outside a lot in the winter, as he has a small farm.
With family or just your husband, I hope that you will have a joyous Christmas. But I hope that we will "speak" again before the 25th!
Hugs
Jane
Hi Jane, as always your photos are just beautiful and I'd rather see your photos than ones on glossy magazines. I've never heard of gingerbread Twix and your make at home version sounds delicious. My mother sometimes baked gingerbread during the cold months, she would cut in squares and we would eat it spread with butter. It was so good 😄
ReplyDeleteI'll be looking forward to your daily December posts.
Yes, your kitties are cute as can be.
Why thank you Rhonda! I'm just a point and click photographer. Ha!
DeleteI admit chocolate and gingerbread sounded strange to me until I tried it. I too had it with butter growing up. Or sometimes lemon sauce if my sisters did the baking. Nothing beats it warm from the oven. And boy does it ever smell good!
Hissy and Binks thank you!
Hope you have a lovely week!
HUgs
Jane
Hi Jane
ReplyDeleteI recently discoverd you through the Down to Earth blog. I have read through your archives and am looking forward to your daily posts. Luv your decorating. Thank you for sharing! Merry Christmas!!
Well, I'm glad to have you join us, Kim! Now that you introduced yourself, I hope you won't be a stranger. Merry Christmas to you too!
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Jane
Dear Jane,
ReplyDeleteAdvent is absolutely my most favorite time of year. I love the quiet expectation of the incarnation. I take it real slow on decorating for Christmas (I don't have guests coming), not just to acknowledge this liturgical season but because we have some family birthdays that need their own celebration. But my girls and I went out for a cold walk yesterday and came in with rose hips, ilex berries and pine branches for the table. I brought out our Christmas candle lantern that my youngest made years ago, and the box of Christmas picture books from the attic. My girls are a bit old for those but they still smile when they see them. Once my new advent candle wreath arrives in the mail I'll set it up with blessed candles and bring the nativity out as well. That will be it until St. Lucy's day (Dec 13) which is when we always put up our tree. Not listening to the radio or having tv/internet at home also keeps things quiet.
I like your joy list! I keep a small green notebook on me at all times in order to list "good things" that I see or that happen. I've quite a collection of these gratitude books now and reading back through them is a real pleasure.
I'm almost ready to start my annual making of dulce de leche which I give as gifts to my co-workers. Its the simplest thing in the world to make and everyone loves it!
I don't have too many thrifty things for this week aside from buying a second turkey at the after-Thanksgiving sales and living off leftovers since Thursday.
Have a wonderful week!
Dana
Well Dana, I'm almost 60 (Yikes! How did that happen?) and I still love Christmas picture books. As a matter of fact, I was reading Lois Lenski's Christmas Stories last night. The illustrations in some are just beautiful.
DeleteHaving the guest come and the beginning of the season and needing to send out packages early has turned out to be a blessing. Since many of my friends are not particularly spiritual and several are of other faiths, I get to have the secular celebrations with them early on and then focus on the spiritual aspects of the season closer to Christmas.
Dulce de leche sounds like a wonderful gift! I bet your co-workers really appreciate it. I'll take your word for it that it's easy to make. Ha! I've looked at the recipes before and it doesn't look easy to me. I fall flat, pun intended, when it comes to baking cakes.
There was no room in my freezer so I missed out on the great turkey prices. Can't tell you how much it bothered me!
Have an amazing week!
Hugs
Jane
HI Jane :) I love the story and sentiment behind your nativity scene, what a treasure! I love having things around me that link me to past generations. I'm just a sentimental and sappy girl I guess. ;)
ReplyDeleteIt sounds like you have indeed been a busy lady and have lots of fun in store for you and your family. May you all be blessed!
I guess I am too, Debbie! Isn't this a fun time of year? Have a wonderful week!
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Jane
No guests in the house today after 4 days of entertaining so I decided I better start some Christmas baking. Made my daughter's favorite Molasses cookies as they are coming from KY for the week before Christmas. Better start baby proofing the house as our 1 year old is crawling all over. I got the outside decorations up which aren't much but I love a little bit of light on the front porch for the neighbors to see as they drive down our country road. I may try that Twix bar recipe you shared. I think the family would like those. I have some of my grandkids Christmas gifts bought now but can't figure out what to get for my hubby. I like to shop online as I don't like shopping to start with and it saves me having to travel to the city to shop. I am rather tired after our Thanksgiving but a few afternoon naps will set me straight soon :) Looking forward to your daily posts. Nannie
ReplyDeleteNo matter how hard you try, Nannie, you can never fully baby proof a house from a 1 year old! They would make great detectives. They always find something!
ReplyDeleteThat's nice of yo to put up lights for your neighbors. We talked ourselves out of it. It's been so cold and wet lately.
Husbands are difficult to buy for, whenever you think of something, you discover they went out and bought it for themselves. There's some really great deals for Cyber Monday. Have you ever gone through Ebates when you order on line? You earn rebates from most of the popular stores.
Hope your nap sets you straight! Happy baking!
Hugs
Jane
Along with those above, I'm looking forward to daily posts this December.
ReplyDeleteThank you! I'll try my best not to disappoint.
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Jane
Hi Jane, We love magic jack too- I usually just let them fix it because it gets too complicated for me. We rarely have a problem though.
ReplyDeleteWish we had a Ben Franklin -I love going to the one in East Tawas. Oh I could stay in there forever and spend a lot of money! Lucky it's not close by and we usually only get there once or twice a year.
I love your mitten idea! Have a blessed week. Vickie
Hi Vickie. My son is my IT guy. I clueless when it comes to anything that has to do with a computer.
ReplyDeleteI love Ben Franklins. I get so overwhelmed when I go to MIchaels or Hobby Lobby. There is such a thing as too much of a good thing!
Hugs
Jane
A post a day before Christmas? That's quite an undertaking during the busy holiday season but such a gift to us! I liked your idea of "taking joy". I'll have to remember that. After I read yours and thought of my own it improved my attitude on a day today that needed it.
ReplyDeleteA trip to a big Michaels craft store this weekend unexpectedly got me in the full mood for Christmas. I felt lured in by a "40% off everything" coupon I received and since I wasn't rushed I guess I spent a lot of time looking at the Christmas floral supplies and decorations, the yarn, the baking supplies, the paper craft and jewelry making supplies... I left the store without much more than what I originally intended to buy but along with it a whole lot of ideas and the feeling it is definitely the Christmas season.
I enjoyed your link to The Victorian Trading Company. (Such pretty things.) Have a wonderful week. -Sharon
Well, they won't be so long, Sharon, because I know no one has the time to read my lengthy tomes. Ha! Just little notes to share a thought or a recipe or something. I hope I can come up with 25 ideas!
DeleteI love Michaels when I'm not looking for anything in particular. Sure can get lots of ideas there. Hobby Lobby is fun too. Did you get more jewelry making supplies? I don't dare go down the yarn aisle. I always buy at least one skein and that's the last thing I need.
Have a wonderful week, also!
Hugs
Jane
We haven't any 'Ben Franklin' stores around here anymore.
ReplyDeleteI love you Christmas decor!
And I have so many things to be thankful for..too many to list!
it's hard to believe it is Christmastime already! Unlike you, this is usually a very quiet time of there year up here..but I have noticed more and more people are decorating early this year. i think maybe t=everyone is just so relieved that the elections are over with, and that is a good way to blow off some steam, and relieve the built up stress from another election year, lol!
i have decided to take a ques from my good friend, Deb who actually decorates her rustic cabin all year long with a few Christmas-themed things here and there. It works of you like the rustic nature theme.
Have a wonderful week, Jane!
God bless~Lisa
Hi LIsa! Maybe all little roly-poly kittens act alike. I can't believe how lovey they are. Maybe they sense they have been rescued and are showing their gratitude.
DeleteCabins just lend themselves to Christmas decor. You can get away with reindeer and pine trees in Summer.
This year I've heard more people say that they are looking forward to Christmas than I ever remember. Whatever the reason, it's nice that people are catching the spirit of goodwill!
HUgs
Jane
A blessed Advent to all!
ReplyDeleteBeing able to come here and read a post a day would be an amazing Christmas gift! I really enjoy your observations of everyday life. You make the ordinary seem quite special--which it truly is, if you slow down enough to realize it.
Jane, I have an odd question for you; do you "winterize" your trellis roses? And if so, how? I have a climbing rose I planted this past spring. I didn't install a trellis (sigh) and realize I must do something. Besides tying the longer canes together and stabilizing them so they don't whip in the winds, have you any suggestions? I am Zone 6; the rose is against the west side of my house.
Thanks in advance!
Sue
Hi Sue! If someone else wouldn't have already coined the phrase I would have written "there's magic in ordinary days". I truly believe it.
DeleteAs for the roses, I don't do anything special to winterize them. When I purchase them I take care to plant ones that are hardy for my zone (4). In the Spring, I just cut back any dead wood and that's it. There have been a few harsh winters when that meant cutting them back almost to the ground, but they came back. I don't believe in coddling my plants. Ran built me some trellises but I also use a heavy gauge wire suspended to the eaves with an eye-hook to train some of them.
A blessed Advent to you too!
Hugs
Jane
I have always appreciated the little things and sometimes the simplest thing could make my day. Or, on the other hand, it could be the simplest thing that was the straw that broke the camel's back. These days, I am so thankful for the ordinariness of my life. I so appreciate the time to piddle in my sewing room, read, bake, play with my cats, etc. Nothing exciting but so thankful for being healthy and that my family is healthy. Your kittens are just adorable. Thank you for showing photos of all three. Your Christmas decorations set just the right tone. I love your wreaths and the red berries on the branch in the first photo. I have never had or heard of gingerbread Twix. Your recipe sounds very good. I just made peanut butter balls (dipped in chocolate, of course) and stashed those in the freezer for the holidays. The grandkids love them and they are pretty time intense so I try to get them made early. Really looking forward to your December posts. Happy Advent!
ReplyDeleteThanks for reminding me about the peanut butter balls, Shirley! They are a family favorite here too and the grandkids really love them. I had forgotten all about them until you mentioned them.
DeleteOrdinary and simple is the best, I've found. I used to have a life of dinner parties and dressing up and never enjoyed it. After a while it all became a bore, having conversations about nothing with strangers listening to long speeches. But at home I can always find something to amuse myself with. I'd rather have a piece of toast with my own homemade jam than any dinner made by a five star chef. Here's to us homebodies!
Hugs
Jane