It's A Mad, Mad World

Hello dear friends!   Bet you thought you'd never hear from me again.  Today Ginger and Debra left comments, so I thought I'd put my two cents in about what's going on out there.  I won't waste any time about what precautions everyone should be taking, just to say, that if you feel in anyway ill, please be considerate and stay indoors.  Personally, I had a sore throat and cough for weeks before this whole thing started, and not knowing if it was "anything" I opted to stay at home and have my husband doing any necessary running.  BTW, all better now and have been for about ten days.  

What worries more than the pandemic, is what will happen to our economy if things remain closed for as long as some politicians are saying (up to 18 months!).  Our country will never recover from that.  The president wants the country open by Easter, but some of the  governors are saying longer, and since we have a federal government, there's really very little he can do about it. Whatever the case, we better get ready for some lean times.

I have faced lean times myself; as married students, after a major illness of both myself and my husband, when we had two sons in expensive colleges at the same time ($60,000 out of our $70,000 salary), and on a few occasions when he came home and told me that his lab was laying off everyone.  So yeah, I can empathize with everyone that is being laid off now. It seems in life you can only be certain of uncertainty.

WHAT I DID FIRST

The second I learned that I might not have any money coming in, I went around and turned off all the lights and unplugged everything.  This may seem silly, but when every penny counts, it's the sum total of all the little things that will save you.

The next thing I did was cancel all unnecessary things; the cable, the newspaper, the Culligan man.  I would say the cell phone, but most people are unwilling to do that. I manage without one, using a cheap Tracphone to carry in my car for emergencies and we use a MagicJack for a home phone, it costs us  $30 a year for phone service, all together my phone services  costs less than $10 a month.  I do have internet, but the cheapest I can get at $50 a month. This works as my entertainment in lieu of cable and as my phone service with the MagicJack.  I suppose that if I needed to, I could get rid of the cable and use the Tracphone as my only source of communication. But for now that's not necessary.  Just something to think about if you really are in dire straights.

The third step was to take inventory of our pantry.  It is reassuring to see that with a little ingenuity, you won't starve.  Never buy what you can make yourself!  Not only will it be cheaper, it will be better quality and probably healthier.  It's surprising how few things you need to buy when you make everything from scratch.  Crackers, tortillas, bread, pie crusts, rolls, noodles and dumplings are all just some sort of variation of flour, leavening, and fat.  I always buy shortening, yeast, baking soda and baking powder, sugar and flour in bulk and only about twice a year. Just like in the pioneer days. Ha! If times get tough, I dare say that people that do keto, are going to have to give it up or be prepared to pay the piper.  Protein, especially in the way of meat is ultra expensive.  Plain honest foods are and always will be the best.  As a matter of fact, there's a term for it, "whole Foods".  Had to laugh when I read that, because it's a supposed a new-fangled philosophy about eating, yet I, and most of the country folks I know, have been eating that way for centuries.  I guess one of the silver linings of hard times is that people will not be able to afford so much junk food.

The final step was to hold a family meeting.  In these days, we like to coddle our children, but I believe letting the older ones know the situation is character building.  They'll know not to complain and ask for things that cannot be afforded and they will also know not to add anymore stress on mom and pops.  Have them brainstorm for ways to save money and put them in charge of monitoring electrical use, gas consumption, etc.  Maybe than can think of ways to raise a little money by collecting bottle returns or selling some of the games on Ebay.  I truly believe that it times like these that draws families closer together.

SILVER LININGS

And that is the silver lining to this whole mess.  I live in a tiny village.  The entire winter I've only seen a handful of people, but since this lockdown, I've seen families out walking, playing ball, raking their yards.  I was astounded.  I never even knew we had so many young families in the village. As I reflect back on my long life, I can say without a doubt some of the hardest times have also been the most enjoyable.  It strips away all the distractions of modern living and get it down to the brass tacks of life.   Tonight I am sitting here typing this by the light of a kerosene lamp, belly full of a make-do dinner in my cozy tiny living room completely furnished in second-hand goods and I truly feel like the most blessed person on earth. My hope for you all, is that you too can find solace in that fact that even in the hardest of times, there is a certain joy that comes from meeting difficulties head on and knowing that you are capable of overcoming them. And when you do, you will feel invincible!

Hugs
Jane